Have you ever run out of gas in your vehicle? I hate to admit it, but I have done it.
You say to yourself, “Ah, I can go a few more miles.” My dad and I have walked more than once
to find gas. You would think that the
pain would cause us not to repeat this foolish mistake.
Many of us have also ignored the fuel gauge in our
marriages. You have to put fuel in
your marriage to keep it going. Each of us married folks can remember the
things we did before we got married, like opening the car door, and spending an
hour getting ready for our date. I’m not sure what happens after we have been
married a few years; I think we go brain dead!
If we would keep doing the things we did before we
got married, most of our marriages would stay alive and vibrant. I would like
to encourage you Sir, plan out a vacation for you and your wife. You need time
with one another and yes, without the kids. Take her on a cruise, wash and vacuum her car, shave and
dress up a bit for your weekly date.
She’s worth it.
You must put fuel in the relationship in order to
keep things exciting. If you ignore it, you will soon be out of energy in the relationship.
Ladies, make his favorite chocolate pie or dessert.
If you’re a stay at home mom, greet him when he
comes home with an attractive dress rather than your nightgown. Before you got
married, you wouldn’t think of spending just 5 minutes getting ready for a
date. All these things are putting fuel in the tank.
Texting one another during the day, taking walks together,
leaving one another love notes, buying special gifts, are ways to show one each
other how much you value them.
When
was the last time you really looked at the dashboard of your marriage? Is it
running close to E? Are you going to risk losing one of the best things that
ever happened in your life? Don’t
say, “I really can’t afford a cruise, flowers, or time off work. Listen, it’s
cheaper than the court system or a lawyer!
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